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High-Risk Homosexual: A Memoir by [Edgar Gomez]

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The Millions, A Most Anticipated Book of the Year
Times of India Most Anticipated LGBTQ+ Book of the Year

A breath of fresh air . . . Gomez writes with a humor and clarity . . . Gomez's voice is equal parts warmth and acid wit, like a good friend you're slightly afraid of . . . An exciting debut from an author with a rare point of view. High-Risk Homosexual deals with some titanic questions. What is Latinidad? What is machismo? What does it mean to be a man, never mind a queer man? By its own admission, the book doesn't have all the answers, but it makes a compelling case that they will come from the razor-sharp queers living in the margins. --John Paul Brammer, The New York Times Book Review

I loved this memoir so much. Gomez had me crying and laughing while also taking deep breaths throughout the pages. --Lupita Aquino, TODAY

Gomez's compelling memoir of embracing his gay, Latinx identity in a world that so often prizes neither takes the reader on a whirlwind tour from a Nicaraguan cockfighting ring to a drag queen convention in Los Angeles and far beyond. --Emma Specter, Vogue

Gomez explores his upbringing and coming to terms with his identity in a series of humorous essays. --Alamin Yohannes, Entertainment Weekly

The catalogue page for this debut memoir lists a number of things you can expect to find within the book's contents. Among them are 'Maybelline foundation shade: Rich Tan, ' 'A baby wailing in an ancient Jesuit language, ' and 'The most famous woman in the world.' If that doesn't entice you to read Gomez's account of figuring out how to embrace his queer identity amid a culture of machismo, I'm not sure what will. --Keely Weiss, Harper's Bazaar, A Best LGBT Book of the Year

Laughs abound in this book, as do sharp confrontations with what we risk living in the margins. --Matt Ortile, Esquire

High-Risk Homosexual is a book that will stick with readers. --Sarah Neilson, Shondaland

Gorgeous and hilarious. --Sophia June, NYLON, A Most Anticipated Book

Outstanding . . . Throughout this impressive memoir [Gomez] writes candidly and with great dexterity about the joys and fears that grounded his innocent childhood and continue to inform and empower his adulthood. --Jim Piechota, The Bay Area Reporter

This memoir is good: author Edgar Gomez's literary wandering makes it feel much like an honest conversation with readers . . . An affable book with just enough seriousness. --Terri Schlichenmeyer, Washington Blade

Hilarious and touching . . . Edgar Gomez's tone is personal, heartfelt, and introspective, with a healthy dose of humor. --David Vogel, BuzzFeed

Heartbreaking, funny, and vulnerable . . . Gomez expertly captures what it means to be on the cusp of embracing your full, queer self when the world doesn't want you to do so. --Eva Recinos, B*tch

A propulsive delight . . . Gomez has the droll observations of David Sedaris or Michael Arceneaux . . . Full of hard-won insights into the heart, Latinx identity, and contemporary queer life . . . An engrossing memoir. --Matthew Caprioli, Lambda Literary

Excellent . . . A journey not without difficulties, but also not without saving grace. --Rigoberto González, On the Seawall

A must-read memoir about sex, love, and queerness . . . [Gomez] balances tender moments with the sharpest wit. --Adam Vitcavage, Debutiful

Gomez's vulnerable and humorous voice gives strength to High-Risk Homosexual. And yes, while this highly personal memoir is written through the unique lens of a femme-queer-Latinx, there is a universal narrative that will resonate with anyone who has ever felt marginalized. No matter how we identify or where we end up, ultimately, we are all high-risk, and Gomez captures this universality so well. Shantay. --Trey Burnette, Los Angeles Review of Book

"A riotously funny and poignant debut by a quick-witted new voice . . . Displaying a masterful blend of humor, personal reflection, and thoughtful commentary on Latinx culture, Gomez's first work is as good as it is largely due to its emotional sincerity, its willingness to examine the mistakes and lessons learned just as closely as it does the triumphs . . . This book--open, anguished, brimming with humanity--is, above all, a work of hope." --Isabella Pilotta Gois, Latino Book Review

With alternating notes of gut-wrenching emotion and humor, High-Risk Homosexual chronicles not only Gomez's coming-of-age and coming out, but also his choppy navigation of a culture and family that refused to accept him . . . Gomez's incandescent prose flickers with an intensity that illuminates his insecurities, his disappointments, and his courage. --Henry L. Carrigan Jr., BookPage

Packed with dry wit and searing cultural insight . . . A brilliant and provocative interrogation of sex, gender, race, and love. --Publishers Weekly (starred review)

Poignant, vivid, and often hilarious, this coming-of-age memoir fearlessly explores intersectional identity and shows what it means to live and love authentically as a gay man today . . . An engagingly candid memoir from a promising young writer. --Kirkus Reviews

"High-Risk Homosexual is a keen and tender exploration of queer identity, masculinity, and belonging. From the cockfighting ring in Nicaragua, where he was taken by his uncles to learn how to be a man, to the Pulse Night Club in Orlando, where he witnesses freedom and joy on the dance floor, Edgar Gomez writes with honesty and humor about the difficulty of straddling boundaries and the courage of finding oneself. This book signals the arrival of a major new talent." --Laila Lalami, author of Conditional Citizens: On Belonging in America and The Other Americans

--This text refers to the paperback edition.

About the Author

Edgar Gomez is a Florida-born writer with roots in Nicaragua and Puerto Rico. A graduate of University of California, Riverside's MFA program, he is a recipient of the 2018 L. M. and Marcia McQuern Graduate Award in Non-Fiction Writing. His work has been published and anthologized widely in such outlets as Popsugar, Longreads, Narratively, The Rumpus, and Ploughshares. He lives in Queens, New York, where he is saving up for good lotion. --This text refers to the paperback edition.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B092854BHM
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Soft Skull (11 January 2022)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 2473 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 304 pages
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5.0 out of 5 stars A brilliantly written and challenging story of a life in progress.
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